Showing posts with label flow. Show all posts
Showing posts with label flow. Show all posts

Tuesday, 31 January 2017

Daily advice, stress and flow, give and take, save everyone (including the cheerleader)

"The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance."
- Alan Watts -

It is like a Tai Chi move, a water type kung-fu, a way to keep your flow even in the direst need. You should try it, and you will be surprised. Because, as we already learned, stress means resistance to the way the events happen around us. The opposite of stress is flow. Learn how to ride the wave, and you will become more than an expert, you will master that skill.


"You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you."
- John Bunyan -

This is even more than my daily ritual of random acts of kindness. This will imply observance, intuition and compassion. You need to become proactive, to find the perfect recipient of your benevolence. It is the next step. And in doing this every day, you will start to change. To glow and laugh, to smile and give, to have plentiful of resources there where before was none.


"Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does. "
- William James -

It is all about our daily habits. Buy local, invest in renewable and fair-trade products. Eat organic, Live as a minimalist. Recover and use again, avoiding waste. It is not about one singular effort. It is about being a model, and changing others without trying. The biggest heroes are always unsung. Nobody knows what they did, but they saved the planet many times over. Become one of them .

Monday, 13 June 2016

Jamie Wheal - flow and superpowers

Four forces are revolutionizing and creating superpowers:

1. Neurology - replace mythology. More room to roam.
2. Technology - give us scale and versability.
3. Psychology
4. Pharmacology - nootropics.

Anamnesia - reminds what we forgot.

Flow create powerful intrinsic motivation, cuts path to Mastery up to 500%, increase happiness.

Types of flow profile:
Hard charger
Deep thinker
Flow goer
Crowd pleaser

Anchors that keep you down and get you out of flow:
Harried - relentless inner critique
Hurried - often stressed, rarely present
Flat - gap between desired goals and current reality

Questions related to the anchors that stop your flow:
What's it costing to your life?
What's it costing your work in the world?
What's it costing the people you love?
How much longer until you get out of your own way?

Saturday, 11 June 2016

Your Flow Profile: Flow Goer

As i was talking about flow last weeks, here is something for you. To find your flow profile click here. This is mine.

Your Flow Profile: Flow Goer

You: Out of all the possible Flow Profiles, yours is the most freely flowing! We don’t mean that you necessarily have readier access to the Flow State than anyone else. Your life, your attitude, your activities, and even your appearance all reinforce the fact that being in Flow is central to who you are as a person. You’ve done your fair share of soul-searching to arrive here. You may have taken the road less traveled. You might have abandoned what you perceived to be a fruitless and neverending struggle for wealth and recognition in favor of a personal journey you designed for yourself. Where folks with other profiles tend to find Flow at special times and under specific conditions, you seek a life that is never not in flow. You might believe in serendipity, synchronicity, and that everything happens for a reason.

Flow Hacks: You’re drawn to activities such as yoga, meditation, and ecstatic dance. You might pursue eco-tourism, or embark on personal growth retreats.

Caution: In your effort to minimize struggle, conflict, and stress in your life, it’s possible to overshoot and to also minimize progress. It’s grit that makes a pearl, after all. The paradox of flow is that “effortless effort” takes a lot of work! Always keep in mind that the line between “going with the flow” — only doing things when they’re effortless and easy, always taking the path of least resistance — and only doing easy things is razor thin. Be vigilant against any behaviors that keep life in soft focus, especially self-medication.

Pro-Tip: Train your off-side. Make your bed every morning. Be impeccable with your commitments. Be punctual. Create systems for accomplishing tasks and managing finances and stick to them. You’ve worked hard to create a lifestyle around Flow, and, counterintuitively, you’ll find even more Flow in your life by facing the more difficult parts of your life head on. Practice having important conversations. Get comfortable with conflict resolution. Closing the open loops in your life will allow for (even more) bliss.

Saturday, 4 June 2016

About group flow - 10 conditions to make it happen

We have individual flow, but we can also experience group flow. It is almost impossible to achieve individual flow, as it is seen as the ultimate expression of mastery of some skill (which is not true, as flow is a trainable skill), and thinking about group flow, it is like a once in a life time experience, pleasing the eyes to see it happen. But group flow it is not only something defining synchronous swimming or world class football teams.

Here are 10 conditions to make the group flow to manifest:
1. Group goal.
2. Close listening.
3. Keep it moving forward.
4. Complete concentration.
5. Being in control.
6. Blending egos.
7. Equal participation.
8. Familiarity.
9. Communication.
10. The potential for failure.

About each conditions we can write at least few posts, but i will keep it simple, and let you to do the research. Have a good day!
G.

Friday, 3 June 2016

About flow, arousal and control

To find the "flow" is the opposite of the distracted mind-wandering. It is found when you are engaged in a task that is challenging, but for which you have the adequate skills, According to one of the lead scientists in the flow research, Mihaly Csicszentmihalyi, the flow is an intrinsically rewarding or optimal state that results from intense engagement with daily activities. Feeling flow is exhilarating, satisfying and happiness producing. 

How to recognize when you are in flow:
-you are completely focus on the task at hand,
-you forget about yourself, others and the world around you,
-you lose track of time,
-you become more creative and productive,
-flow is a successful habit in finding happiness.

But to be in flow, you need to know some key facts:
-the skills need to match the challenge,
-flow occurs when goal is clear,
-you need constant and immediate feedback about how close you are on achieving your goal,
-free to fully concentrate on the task.

Thursday, 25 February 2016

Love and flow in our peak state, or how i learn to skate through life (part 2)

This time i will start with some studies done by Helen Fisher, regarding the three stages of attraction.

1. First stage is Lust, or sex drive, generated by estrogen and testosterone. This it is not a precursor to romantic love, there are distinct systems in the body that are activated through various stages of attraction. It is defined by the desire to have any available partner.

2. Romantic attraction is the second stage, related to finding the right partner. Fisher defines this stage as “elation, heightened energy, obsessive thinking, focused attention and yearning”. Romantic attraction is characterized by high levels of adrenaline, norepinephrine and dopamine (all three are stimulants of some kind) and lower levels of serotonin.

3 And then we have the third stage. We are talking here about the emotional attachment, a calm relationship with one long term partner. After the initial stage we can observe the apparition of pro-social bonding chemicals as endorphin, vasopressin and oxytocin. Endorphin will show up once be become tolerant to the increase of dopamine and norepinephrine that come with the falling in love process, about 18 months into a relationship. They calm everything down, changing the mad experience of being in love into the security and stability of a mature relation. Vasopressin was linked to monogamy (Brendan P. Zietsch from University of Queensland did an experiment showing that mutations to vasopressin receptor gene are linked with extra pair bonding, this is only a scientific term for sexual infidelity. Warning: correlation is not the same as causation, are many unmeasured factors that contribute to infidelity, do not use that as an excuse). Oxytocin is promoting feelings of trust and security, it was named “cuddle chemical” or "moral molecule" for the obvious reason. Serena Rodrigues did a research which was showing that oxytocin increase monogamous tendencies in mamalian species. Also have an important role in childbirth, mother-child bonding, promoting connections, instrumental in father forming bonds with newborns, stress relieving effects, increased care not only towards your own offspring, but others offspring too, even other species. Oxytocin is a neurochemical enabler of trust, devotion and kindness (as it was shown in Kosfield experiment).

To summarize this, love is a motivational state associated with a desire to enter or maintain a close relationship with a preferred individual. Love plays a role in mediating reward and goal-directed motivation. It can change you way of thinking and behave, due to intensely focused attention on the specific other person. On MRI studies, love is increasing significantly the activity in ventral tegmental area (VTA), medial insula, anterior cingulate cortex (ACC), hippocampus, nucleus accumbens (NAC), caudate nucleus and hypothalamus. At the same time, the activation of amygdala, prefrontal cortex (PFC), temporal lobes and temporo-parietal junction (TPJ) will decrease. The brain region involved in the love process can be divided into subcortical and cortical brain networks where first mediates reward, motivation and emotion regulation, and second supports social cognition, attention, memory, mental associations and self-representation. We can assume that falling and being in love may affect the underlying functional architecture structure of the involved brain regions. Love may change the function of the reward, motivation and emotion regulation brain network. A person in love will try frequently to monitor their own emotional state, as well as their lovers’ emotional state, monitoring conflicts while adjusting cognitive strategies in order to resolve conflicts so as to maintain their romantic relationship. We can observe two patterns in this case, in the brain activity. First, at sub-cortical level, we cave a hyper-activation in the neuronal systems that regulate pleasure, emotional processing and sensory integration (notice more, feel more), Second, we have a widespread deactivation in the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain involved in higher cognitive processes like rational decision-making and long term planning (love is a mild form of temporary madness). The effect diminishes over time, but not completely.

Now we go with the flow. First stage is similar, with a testosterone increase as in the lust phase. Second and last stage we got the initial increase of dopamine and norepinephrine (coming with the heightening of the focus), endorphin increase in the middle part of last stage (bringing calm and peacefulness) and oxytocin increase at the end (the flow's afterglow phenomenon). But we have few notable differences here. First is related to time, the entire process of falling and being in love will develop over a 3-4 years period, while you can experiment all this being in flow in one afternoon only. The biggest surprise was when we measured the serotonin levels. When we start to be in love, serotonin decrease dramatically. Our focus and ability to make decisions are also affected. But when you are in flow, the serotonin levels increase. Flow follow focus, so when you are falling in love, because of your lack of focus, is much more difficult to get in flow. But if you are in flow, it is easier to fall in love? Let's see. Dopamine is the one neurochemical involved in this situation. It is also the one behind shopping addiction, but this is a story for another time. Dopamine makes everything look good. Remember that time when you went to an exotic place in holiday, and risk and novelty got you in peak state. Then you have seen a person and fall in love. Everything was perfect. Then holiday is finished, you come back, and return to your normal state, out of flow. Things start to not look well . Many relationships of this kind will not survive after coming back.

So, being in love make it almost impossible to get in flow, being if flow can help you to fall in love, but it is not the genuine feeling. What we can do? It is any solution to have what is the best of both?
Yes. It is possible, but involve some work. A lot of work. You need to become an evolved being. Imagine that, until know, you were only that tiny caterpillar. In order to do this, you need to become a butterfly.

Some people talk about the third super feeling, defined by ancient Greeks as Agape, the selfless love. the love of the spirit, not the one of the limited Ego. Yale university had done a research involving people practicing loving kindness (people that are known to us as Buddhist monks). The reward process parts of the brain, very active while being in love (or addicted to cocaine), are deactivated at people practicing selfless love (the more experienced you are, the more deactivated the brain reward mechanism it is). While the romantic love feels like flow, the selfless love is like flow. When attention is not self centered, but oriented towards the entire humanity, that moment, the selfless love will mimic flow perfectly. And you start to feel whole again. It is almost a religious experience, it is more than that even.

In conclusion, it is possible to be both in flow and in love, but not in the way you were thinking. It is the subtle focus from "I am" to "You are".





Sunday, 21 February 2016

Love and flow in our peak state, or how i learn to skate through life (part 1)

This is an excerpt from my future book, even if i cannot call it a book as i wrote only 10 pages. But it is very interesting and i like to debate about this. 

Flow - is a state of mind when you are connected with everyone and everything around you, when you go through life with a spirit like the water (the alleged mizu-no-kokoro), without any real obstacle. 

Love - especially romantic love, is one of the most powerful feeling that you can find anywhere on Earth. Not kidding, a study in anthropology involving no less than 170 societies, searching for evidence of romantic love, reached the conclusion that there is no society without love to be present. 

Now, both love and flow are characterized by intense focus and intense euphoria. But when you love someone, your attention is focused on that person, when you are in flow, your attention focus will shift from deep inside to being aware and perfectly integrated in the whole outside world. If we get an analogy with the Light, surprisingly, falling in love is like a huge firework explosion, while being in flow is like the Light focused in a laser beam. And from this different view, few questions come to life. What is harder, to focus in one point and maintain that focus indefinitely or to expand into infinity? Can you fall in love when you are in flow? Can you go in flow when you are in love? Do they overlap? How can we maintain our flow, or the initial intensity of being in love? I will try to answer to all these questions, from biochemistry perspective. 

To fully understand this you need to find what really happen to us when we fall in love, or when we are in love. There are three main areas of the brain that are activated in romantic love. First one is the ventral tegmental area (VTA), a part of the brain containing A10 cells, the ones that make dopamine. VTA is part of the brain's reward system, some scientist describe this area as the reptilian core of the brain, associated with wanting, motivation, focus and craving. The feelings processed by VTA are much bellow cognitive thinking process, even bellow basic emotions. As a significant synchronicity, same brain region is activated by cocaine rush. But love is much more. Why? If you really want, you can completely erase the habit of using cocaine. That is the reason why some believe that, if you fall in love romantically, it is better to be sure that the other person is feeling the same way about you. VTA become even more active when you cannot get what you want. Dumped, you just love harder. The second area activated by romantic love is the core of nucleus accumbens, the part of the brain that is activated when you are willing to take big risks for big gains or big losses. The third area activated is the one associated with deep attachment to another individual. According to the research done by Art Aron, at the people who are still in love after 25 years, the brain areas associated with intense romantic love are still active, like in the beginning. 

What are our conclusions? Romantic love is addiction, as good or as bad as the relation with the chosen one is going well or not. In this process, we have all the characteristics of a typical addiction: tolerance (you need to see or to stay close to the other person more and more), withdrawal (a symptom where one would experience major depression when he or she having access to something/someone that is addicted of it, after being dependent on it) and relapse (you can easily get back in a former state and/or condition, even after you were thinking that you got over it). As humans, the implications are far more subtle than our far cousins, the primates, for example. In the animal kingdom everything is simple, thanks to the pheromones & company, we have only love at first sight. But we will speak about this with other occasion. 

And the question remains. Why we fall in love? They tested socioeconomic background, level of intelligence, level of good looks, religions values, childhood, personality types according to biology, as in measured degrees of dopamine, serotonin, estrogen and testosterone. (If you are wondering about, search The Braverman Test) Why we feel that a person makes us to fall in love with rather than another? We do not know yet. The magic is still there. 


(That's it for today, in the second part i will write about the three stages of love, the three stages of flow and the major difference between them, we keep in touch.)

Good night everyone!
G.

  

Tuesday, 16 February 2016

Love and on-the-peak state


I am working at some interesting ideas, if is not too large I will post something about very soon.

Wednesday, 27 January 2016

Need an idea?

One of them is here.


Tuesday, 8 December 2015

Go. With. The. Flow.
































What was that? A short YouTube video will show you.

Click here and find out.

Shall i say it in the other way?

Here.

Enough?

Go to work then. It is the right time.

Tuesday, 24 November 2015

A group of random blog posts i would like to read again

1.Know The Better Question

A little while back author and investor Tim Ferriss walked me through the four things he does on a regular basis to support long haul creativity. His whole list is really good, so we’ll start there:
Daily Exercise: at least an hour, needed to lower anxiety levels and clear the head. Interestingly, the research shows that weight training is better than aerobic training for quieting the inner critic.
Keep a Maker Schedule: Carve out dedicated periods for key tasks that require creativity. If complex problem-solving or analysis is required, Ferriss recommends at least four hour blocks. And this also means no distractions—turn off email, phone, messages, skype, twitter, facebook and all the rest.
Long Walks: Without music or podcasts or distraction, purposefully letting the mind wander. This switches off spotlight attention and  switches on the default mode network—aka, the imagination network.

Surround yourself with driven people who are good at spotting your assumptions. “It’s not just people who make me question my assumptions,” Ferriss explains. “The people who are the very best at this are the ones who hear my question and responds with: ‘You’re asking the wrong question. The better question is….’” This last point is really important. While feedback can often be a hindrance to in-the-moment creativity, it’s essential for the long haul. But choice in feedback giver is critical.
This becomes doubly important the more successful you get. If you make a name for yourself in creativity people tend to (initially) trust your creative ideas a little more than they should and too frequently give you the benefit of the doubt. This is no bueno. To make sure he’s getting the feedback he needs, Ferriss hunts for folks who help him reframe his question, rather than just play devil’s advocate. This is dead on. People who play devil’s advocate often do so out of reflex—this means they tend to lack the technical sophistication to really help and often derail creativity through generalization. Reframers, meanwhile, take the idea farther faster. By providing a better question, they’re providing a new launch pad. This provide momentum. And for long haul creativity, nothing is more fundamental than momentum.

2.Momentum Matters Most

Speaking of momentum...there is something deeply exhausting about the year-in and year-out requirements of imagination. Every morning, the writer faces a blank page, the painter an empty canvas; the innovator a dozen directions to go at once. The brilliant tidbit of advice that has helped me solve this slog came from Nobel Laureate Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Marquez said that the key was to quit working at the point you’re most excited. In other words, once Marquez really starts to cook, he shuts down the stove. This seems counter-intuitive. Creativity is an emergent property. Quitting when most excited—when ideas are really emerging—seems like the exact opposite of what you should do. Yet Marquez is exactly right. Creativity isn’t a single battle; it’s an ongoing war. By quitting when you’re most excited, you’re carrying momentum into the next day’s work session. Momentum is the key. When you realize that you left off the day prior at someplace both exciting and familiar—someplace where you know the idea that comes next—you dive right back in, no time wasted, no time to let fear creep back into the equation, and far less time to get up to speed.

3.A Few Thoughts on Sobbing, Shouting, and Punching Hard Objects

I’ve written nine books. Two are in drawers. Seven are in stores. All share one thing in common: at some point during their writing, I ended up on the ground, sobbing, shouting, and punching the floor.
About five years ago, I heard author David Foster Wallace tell a story about the difficulty of creativity. “It never fails,” he said,  “at least once a book, I end up on the ground, sobbing, screaming and punching the floor.” The obvious point here is yes, creativity is insanely frustrating for everybody. The core question for Long Haul Creativity is what to do about it? Turns out, researchers have discovered, that frustration is actually a fundamental step in the creative process. From a technical perspective, this seems to have something to do with the limits of working memory and the requirements of creativity’s incubation period, but no one is exactly certain. From a practical perspective, this means reversing our traditional relationship with frustration. Since this emotion is a basic step in the creative process, frustration is actually a sign of progress, a sign of movement in the right direction, a sign that that much needed breakthrough is ever closer to showing up.

4.Sir Ken Robinson Weighs In On Frustration

I just got back from presenting at the World Business Forum in Milan, Italy, where I got to spend some time with creativity expert and all around great guy Sir Ken Robinson. Sir Ken pointed out that long haul creativity requires a low-level, near-constant sense of frustration—and this is different than the just discussed moment-of-madness version of frustration. Moment-of-madness frustration is what makes you punch the ground. The version Ken is describing is about motivation.  It’s a near-constant itchy dissatisfaction, a deep sense of what if, and we can make it better, and the like. To illustrate this,  he told me a story about George Lucas. Robinson, apparently, popped the question: “Hey George,” he said, “why do you keep remaking all those Star Wars movies?” Lucas had a great answer: “In this particular universe, I’m God. And God isn’t satisfied.”

5.Everybody’s Got A Job To Do

There’s this mistaken assumption that creativity is mostly a solitary pursuit. This may be true, but the business of creativity is always collaborative. Every published journalist has had to brave a gauntlet of editors, copy-editors, managing editors ad infinitum. Movies and books and plays and poems are more of the same. Startup entrepreneurs always have investors—etc. And this brings me to an important point: everybody’s got a job to do. And everybody wants to keep that job. In writing, this means that even if you turn in something perfect, my editors are still being paid to edit—so they will. This is why every time I turn in a piece of finished work, I intentionally include a few horrible lines. It gives my editors something to do. It lets them feel useful. It keeps their grubby little hands away from my damn perfect sentences.

6.Creativity Is A By-Product

Contrary to popular opinion, creativity is almost always the by-product of passionate hard work and not the other way around. Olympian and gazillion time X Games gold medalist Gretchen Blieler—one of the more creative snowboarders in history—puts it this way: “You don’t wake up and say: today I’m going to be more creative. You do the things you love to do and try to get at their essence and allow things to emerge.”

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Monday, 14 September 2015

Go with the Flow

Some very interesting concept here on this website:

http://flowgenomeproject.com/